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Tips on how to successfully co-parent a teen

Minnesota parents who have been through a divorce, are living apart and are struggling to co-parent their teenaged child should consider several ways they could possibly improve their family situation. Successful co-parenting provides a teenager with stability and support -- two important factors that can help prevent risky behavior and experimentation.

Working together to parent the children after the split

Minnesota residents who are going through a divorce have many things to consider. If they are parents, one of their primary concerns will be raising their children after the split. For many couples, this means figuring out how to co-parent successfully while keeping the best interest of the children at the forefront.

Making a successful co-parenting plan

Minnesota parents who are divorcing may struggle with how to handle time with their children. While joint custody is increasingly preferred by divorcing couples as well as family courts, it can be difficult to handle emotionally and practically. Most parents are hesitant to give up any time with their children, and negotiating the logistics of frequent custody swaps can be complex. However, supportive co-parenting arrangements have strong benefits for the children and often help them to adjust to post-divorce life.

Joint custody can benefit children of all ages

There are a number of custody options that people can choose when they decide to divorce in Minnesota. While the right solution may vary for each individual family, joint custody is an increasingly favored standard option in most cases where the divorcing parents live near one another and have living situations appropriate for children. Many child psychologists note that shared custody is preferable for children of all ages, including overnight care, so long as abuse or neglect is not a factor. While some people in the past opposed overnight visits with fathers for infants and toddlers, modern approaches recognize equal value for parenting time with both parents.

Divorced parents should have a plan for the holidays

Divorced and separated parents in Minnesota should come up with a holiday plan in advance to help mitigate stress. Holidays are especially difficult for families who have to struggle with child custody. To prevent tempers and emotions from flaring and help make the holidays more enjoyable for the children, special times of year should be approached with the right attitude.

Parallel parenting can work with meticulous planning

Minnesota parents who are considering a breakup may have been told the best parenting relationships are collaborative. Conflict between parents is a high source of stress for everyone involved. This is especially true for children who are already experiencing a major change in life and living arrangements. When there is a great deal of animosity between parents it is sometimes just not possible to have a collaborative co-parenting relationship. For these couples, the answer often comes from implementing a highly specific parallel parenting plan. The key for each method to work is parents putting their focus on the children involved rather than each other.

What parents can do to help children adjust to divorce

"Birdnesting" is a name for a custody arrangement that some Minnesota parents may want to try. Birdnesting involves the parents keeping the family home and having the children live there full time while each parent lives there part time. Parents might rotate in and out of a small apartment when they are not in the family home. Usually, parents use birdnesting to give their children more stability during or after divorce.

Values of judges influence child custody decisions for fathers

Fathers in Minnesota sometimes criticize family courts for denying them access to their children or imposing child support payments that they consider unreasonable. They perceive courts as favoring women in these decisions, but most state laws recognize that both parents have equal rights regarding access to their children. Judges, however, make the final decisions when child custody and support disputes end up in court, and their personal values sometimes discount the rights of fathers. Judges with old-fashioned beliefs tend to consider mothers to be better caregivers.

Possible ways a parent may win back custody of children

Losing custody of a child can be understandably upsetting for any Minnesota parent who has ended a marriage. While it's often the other parent who ends up with custody in situations like this, there are times when a court determines that children will be better cared for by non-parental relatives or the foster care system. Because of the many circumstances that could be involved, winning back custody rights isn't always an easy process. However, there are some ways a parent may be able to convince the court to have a change of heart.

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